Wednesday, October 5, 2011

mermaid or whale?

Today, over 160,000 Facebook users, including a number of my own friends, shared this post with the image below attached. Here's what it read:

A while back, at the entrance of a gym, there was a picture of a very thin and beautiful woman. The caption was "This summer, do you want to be a mermaid or a whale?"

The story goes, a woman (of clothing size unknown) answered the following way:

"Dear people, whales are always surrounded by friends (dolphins, seals, curious humans), they are sexually active and raise their children with great tenderness.
They entertain like crazy with dolphins and eat lots of prawns. They swim all day and travel to fantastic places like Patagonia, the Barents Sea or the coral reefs of Polynesia.
They sing incredibly well and sometimes even are on cds. They are impressive and dearly loved animals, which everyone defend and admires.

Mermaids do not exist.

But if they existed, they would line up to see a psychologist because of a problem of split personality: woman or fish?
They would have no sex life and could not bear children.
Yes, they would be lovely, but lonely and sad.
And, who wants a girl that smells like fish by his side?

Without a doubt, I'd rather be a whale.

At a time when the media tells us that only thin is beautiful, I prefer to eat ice cream with my kids, to have dinner with my husband, to eat and drink and have fun with my friends.

We women, we gain weight because we accumulate so much wisdom and knowledge that there isn't enough space in our heads, and it spreads all over our bodies.
We are not fat, we are greatly cultivated.
Every time I see my curves in the mirror, I tell myself: "How amazing am I ?! "

(The girl on the picture is French model Tara Lynn) Feel free to tag yourselves :)
Last comment: I'm not putting down thin people, being a thin woman myself (BMI of 22 maybe?) just saying that being large doesn't equate to being unattractive.

If you're a woman, like myself and millions of others, that have insecurities about your weight and the way you look, remind yourself that you are alive and you are allowed to enjoy living - not starving yourself (ok, well sometimes. kidding. this is why I'm not a motivational speaker..) or not being able to do what you love because you don't feel comfortable in your own skin.

I hope you were inspired by this post as much as I was, and thousands of others were to make this image, which our culture has deemed negative, into something positive.


Liz Lizo said...

OMG this is the best thing I have read all day. So beautiful, thanks for sharing. I want to hug the woman who wrote that.

Liz Lizo

augustalolita said...

very much inspired <3 ive had my share of body image issues- but it doesnt bother me much now a days, its because of people who write things like this!! awesome post :)

Rachel, Cold Knees said...

This is great, what a great answer to the stupid gym's campaign! And that model is seriously beautiful. xo

Joan said...

this model has an amazing face! and this article, it would be good to be famous!!

Fabrizia said...

Super cute story, great moral, and even funny! I love it!
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The Girlie Blog said...

Excellent post. And so true too - no mermaids do not exist. Kudos to you girl!

little shadow said...

Love this, and that model is hot!

Jazzy E (hivenn) said...

I have goosebumps. That's amazing. x hivenn

thestyleflux said...

We have to be confident and comfortable with our body no matter what shape we are. No judgements.

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